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If I’m Not Blogging For Money, Why the Ads?

26 Jun

I wrote awhile back on why I blog, and the conclusion I came to is that:
1. To share my knowledge of finances.
2. To gain insight from others, aka get criticism/feedback, on my financial decisions.
3. To log my financial journey, like tracking my net worth.
4. To hold myself accountable.

But none of it includes making money, so why the ads? Well, let me be honest, I do want to make some extra cash if I can. Is it important? No, but it sure is interesting. From choosing ad providers to choosing the layout. What works? What doesn’t? It’s like a little experiment.

So I don’t blog to make a profit, but it does add to the incentive to keep blogging.

Sorry, I’m not willing to take the Paranoid Brain challenge, but that is an interesting proposition. Maybe when I get bored of it…

You probably noticed that I make subtle changes to my blog every so often. If you see anything you don’t like, let me know. This blog is a work in progress, and if there was ever a more appropriate to slap the “under construction” tag on something, this blog is it, actually all blogs are right?

 
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Posted in General on June 26, 2006

 

Thank You: Dad

25 Jun

Since Father’s day just passed, I figure it would be appropriate that the first in my new series called, “Thank You,” is about my dad. Credit to FMF’s post “Being Thankful” for kicking my butt and doing something I should’ve done a long time ago.

Where do I start? My relationship with my father has never really been great. He’s constantly nagging, giving me unsolicited advice, getting overly angry (tempered), and generally unwilling to accept blame, but everything he does he does with the premise that it’s for my good, and although tough to take at times, I guess deep down inside I appreciate it. Even though I don’t actually reciprocate the way I should…Hey what would you do if your dad keeps telling you to save your money when that’s all I think about! He just doesn’t get that.

But hey, for putting me through school, giving me the opportunity to travel, teaching me how to catch crabs, giving me the resources to pursue my interests, and giving me, uhhhh, just about everything else…

Anyway, breaking through the surface tension like Mento’s dropped in bottle of soda, THANK YOU DAD.

 
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Posted in General on June 25, 2006

 

The Ethics of Free Refills…Am I Wrong?

24 Jun

Here’s the story. I’m driving by McDonald’s, and I decide to go in and buy a drink (24oz). I leave, and then as I make my merry way to my destination, I’ve realized I’ve downed the entire cup of Coke. A few minutes away from where I’ve got to go, and what do you know, another McDonald’s. The thought pops up in my head, “Hey when I’m dining in, I can get free refills. Does that mean I can walk in and fill up my cup?” Well, I did. Before you jump all over me for being so cheap, I just bought the soda a few minutes ago…

My take, yeah, I should probably buy another drink, but I mean there are no clear spelled out rules on refills right? If I leave the establishment, I know I’m supposed to buy another drink, but it’s not written on the walls in McDonald’s or anything. What do you think? Am I wrong?

 
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Posted in General on June 24, 2006

 

Friday! Update: UHNWI, Reality, a Circus, and Prosper.com Vs. ING…

23 Jun

When was the last time I posted my Friday! Update? Sorry, I’m not one for routine…I’m very random if you haven’t noticed already. That doesn’t mean through the course of my “Friday! Update” vacation, I didn’t find some great posts…

If you haven’t read my post on Bullying, please check it out. Also, I’ve posted my salary…sort of…

LAMoneyGuy over at It’s Just Money digs deep into the idea of Market Timing. The amount of detail and data that backs his argument is intriguing.

Punny Money talks about the 10 greatest money saving inventions ever. It’s a great read…

Nothing like mother – daughter bonding at the circus…And if SingleMa is writing the post, you know it’s going to be exciting…Check it out.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Does Prosper.com make sense?” Then you’ll want to check out this post by John @ MBH…Calculation Prosper.com vs. ING.

With everything that goes on in PF Blogging, real people exist behind each and every blogger deals with much more than just money, and it’s called life. Law’s Finance asks a question that many of us ask ourselves everyday…How to find time

And finally, nothing like starting the weekend just imagining what it must be like to be an ultra-high-net-worth-individual…30+ million dollars…oh the pain. Read about how long it will take TraineeInvestor @ A Private Portfolio to accomplish this goal.

Have a great weekend!

 
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Posted in General on June 23, 2006

 

Updated Doggie Costs. Food, Treats, Salmon Oil, and Glucosamine + Chondroitin Supplement

23 Jun

I haven’t updated my doggie costs recently, but that doesn’t mean I’ve been neglecting Brownie.

Dog Food (Chicken Soup for the Pet Lover’s Soul): $35.00
Treats (Bully sticks, yeah weird that I just wrote about another kind of bullies): $12.00
Wholistic Pet Salmon Oil (32oz): $36.00
Glucosamine, Chondroitin, and MSM (Triple Flex, For me and my dog actually): $30.00 / 150 pills

The Glucosamine/Chondroitin/MSM supplements are good for bones and joints…Labs (and other large breeds) are prone to hip/elbow dysplasia, so I’m giving it to Brownie just in case…

Total cost to date: $4,220.79

Updated here…

 
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Posted in General on June 23, 2006

 

Got My Auto Insurance Renewal Notice – Saving $164.00!

22 Jun

Woot! Am I happy when my bills go down. My auto insurance decreased from a $651.00 / 6 months to $487.00 / 6 months. Awesome! Thank you AIG Hawaii.

The reason? My speeding ticket has finally been removed from driving record. The actual penalty for the ticket is nothing compared to the pain from the insurance company. Check out how much it has cost me

 
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Posted in General on June 22, 2006

 

How I Found My First “Real Job” and How Much I Got Paid…That’s Right I’m Posting My Salary.

22 Jun

As a fairly recent college graduate starting salary is probably one of the main factors I looked at when deciding what I wanted to study–along with my interests and job availability. I admit it, money was a deciding factor in my degree. Hey, nothing wrong with that…financially, what makes sense? But in the end, money didn’t win out. My passion for teaching and a rewarding career is what won out…for my degree…but I ended up in a computer job even after all the planning…

Why am I revealing my starting salary? It’s my salary from many years ago, so it’s not as relevant today (i.e. My coworkers finding out is not as bad). Is it close to what I’m making now? I leave that for you to discover. I can let you know that I currently work one full-time job and hold a part-time job as well. So hah, now figure out my salary.

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Originally, I had wanted to become a teacher. A high school biology teacher. And I will one day! But what eventually happened is completely different from what I thought would happen. Life has its funny ways, doesn’t it?

I had tons of experience in computers. I worked my entire college career at the university help desk. Not to mention an internship doing various computer related duties, a computer repair job during high school and working a major computer retailer for one summer. The help desk gave me experience with computers and with customer service. I also took computer programming classes. If you can’t tell, I enjoy computers. I never intended to make a career out of it though…maybe a side gig consulting or a few projects here and there, but not a career.

Well, in my senior year, a friend asked me if I wanted to come along with him to a career day event the following week, and I said okay. I worked on my resume, dressed up a bit, and went to school. We went to the career day event and there was my future employer. That’s how I got my first real job–the job I still do today. Keep in mind this was during the dotcom boom. I do software support for a computer company.

I graduated with a minor in Computer Science. My major? Nutrition.
Starting salary: $61,500.00.
My job: Software Support (officially a Software Engineer)

This is why I believe that work experience >>>>>>> Your degree.

Anyway, there you have it. Why nutrition? A couple of reasons: 1) My scholarship required majors in certain areas, and 2) it was a pre-med program, which offered me another option of pursuing med school if I wanted. Don’t send me nutrition questions though, please. Trust me, you don’t want my advice. :)

I guess in the end, I really went into college pursuing a degree that left me with as many options as possible. I knew the gist of what I wanted, but I don’t mind riding the wave per se. I guess I just go whereever life takes me.

I don’t enjoy support, but it’s livable, especially with the flexibility it is providing me. Do I see myself doing it for the rest of my life? No…

 
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Posted in General on June 22, 2006

 

Made a Few Changes, “Off Topic: Bullying and How It Affects Me.”

21 Jun

I’ve made some changes to my original post with additional resources and ways to help. Hope you can sign the petition.

 
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Posted in General on June 21, 2006

 

Off Topic: Bullying and How It Affects Me

21 Jun

Definitely not a financial topic, but one dear and near to my heart. I don’t know where to start. Media focuses on kids that go on rampages (ex. Columbine), but we never hear stories about the kid who committed suicide or the kid who grew up forever altered, lack of self-esteem, lack of confidence, lack of socialization skills, forever marred and unable to meet their full potential because they were picked on, teased by their “friends,” etc. But bullying is far more than that, from something as “small” as not being picked to play games, not being included into lunches, or not getting that invitation to a birthday party. When you’re young, it doesn’t matter. Even the smallest thing feels like a two ton rock falling on you.

Ryan HalliganJust Google, “Bullying & Suicide,” and you’ll see stories that will open your eyes. Read this story about Ryan Patrick Halligan. Watch Ryan’s video. He was victim of “cyber-bullying.” Or Jared Benjamin High who was a victim of bullying at school. For both, life ended MUCH too early.

As I get older, I realize bullying takes a whole other form typically stereotyping, plain old arrogance, inability to accept other people for who they are. As adults, we generally don’t pick on individuals anymore, but rather we bully a group, a personality trait or something we don’t agree with. We argue, not for the purpose of bettering each other, but to win, to make the other a loser, to belittle the other side. We forget that not everyone understands, not everyone is blessed with the same brain, not everyone is as experienced, not everyone is the same. We can only hope to educate and grow together.

Maybe this seems foreign to you, or you can’t imagine it being that important. If that’s the case, I ask you to take a look at your childhood, were you on the other side and didn’t even know it or right in the middle between “cool” and “not cool.” Are you where you are today, maybe because you were on the other side? Maybe you had a group of friends that made you feel accepted? Maybe you just never noticed the fat kid, the nerdy kid, the different kid? Maybe you were blessed with a strong mind and never was bothered…but as kids, I know the vast majority just want to fit in. Play, have fun, make friends…

If you’re a parent, I urge you to look at your child. Regardless of whether they are the victim or the offender, to address it and help your kids understand the damage done. I count myself as lucky, but even today, almost 30 years old, far removed from the lunch bells, cubbie holes, and P.E., I still have memories, memories that hurt. It shapes who I am today, and guides every decision that I make. I try everyday to include, not exclude. I survived, but growing up shouldn’t be about surviving, especially in society today where we have so many luxuries. Maybe we just need to remember.

If you need someone to talk to, I’m here, financial.freedumb [at] gmail.com.

If you need more information, here’s a start…American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry – Children and Depression. There’s tons out there though.

If you want to contribute to the cause…Here are a few organizations that you might be interested in tolerance.org or bullypolice.org.

Finally, sign the Federal Anti-Bullying Laws Petition.

 
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Posted in General on June 21, 2006

 

Plan Z. What If I Lost My Job?

20 Jun

I recently wrote about how I would meet my 2006 goal, or probably not meet my goal would be the more appropriate description, but what if everything went south, and for whatever reason I lost my income source, my job. What would I do? I’m not sure…I’ve thought about this a little, but it’s a serious question. Am I emotionally prepared to handle it? Financially prepared? What are my backup plans?

Financially, I’ll be okay. I have enough funds to last awhile, but if unemployment lasts long enough, it will eat away at my funds for my future home. Frugality takes on a whole new meaning. Emotionally, I think I’m ready. I don’t particularly enjoy my job right now, and have been thinking of other things I could do. But the truth is, I’m not really prepared for it.

How would I gain a new income source? Can I find a new job? Should I go back to school?

Here are some ideas I have should I lose my job:

1. Start my own business. I do have some ideas that I’ve just never pursued fully. Including an online business selling various items from Hawaii.

2. Go back to school. I’ve thought about this one a few times too. I do want to pursue an MBA and/or a degree in secondary education.

3. Teach. Something I’ve wanted to do since my high school biology class.

4. Join the Peace Corp or AmeriCorp. Actually this is one idea that I would love to do. It’ll become much more difficult as I have more responsibilities, so I could consider this something to do ASAP. With a family, house, dog, etc. it would be much more difficult to leave.

What would you do if you lost your source of income?

 
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Posted in General on June 20, 2006